How'd you describe a true friend?
There are some people I know who quote-unquote ditched their friends, intentionally or not, for certain reasons. And maybe, I'm one of those people.
Why? Kasi they did not "support" you sa mga gusto mo? Because they act like they know better than you? Kasi lagi sila kontra?
But have we ever checked if tayo ba ang tama o sila? Sometimes, we believe what we want to. Kung ano ang makakapagpasaya, okay na. Sometimes, we forget na may right and left pa.. ay right and wrong pala :p
Yes, self satisfying. Self serving. But hindi naman lagi pwede ganun diba?
"I just want to be happy"-- a friend told me this. Naisip ko at that time, ako din naman, gusto ko happy ka (Enrile? :D). Pero mas gusto ko na masaya ka sa something na totoo.
"I feel betrayed" -- I heard this from a not-so-old friend when we were talking about his problem. Naisip ko, do you really think na ganun 'yun? Maybe para din naman sa'yo kaya he went against your will. It just happened na hindi mo narinig 'yung side niya.
Communication. Again and again, we say that this is important but then, we intentionally neglect its use in our relationships.
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Personally, I don't like their relationship (not saying their names :)). But since I'm a good friend, I'll just shut myself up. Baka kasi when I open my mouth, you won't like the things I might say. And baka din kasi mali ang pagkakakilala ko sa partner mo :D
I remain happy for you, as long as you are happy. :)
Again, just because I'm a GOOD friend.
So what makes us a true friend?
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